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When is the Right Time to Start Therapy? Stefan Walters
Stefan Walters is a highly experienced Psychological Therapist who works in Harley Therapy with adults, couples and families experiencing a wide range of mental health difficulties.
Watch the full video to get an idea if it’s the right time for you to start therapy.
About Stefan Walters:
Stefan is an expert in attachment, intimacy, and complex traumatic stress, specialising in Couples Counselling and Family Therapy. With advanced training in various therapeutic approaches including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), he has honed a unique, relational and phenomenological psychotherapeutic style. He offers a comprehensive range of therapies for issues like bereavement, mood disorders, and addictions, leveraging both relational and somatic frameworks. Stefan earned his Masters in Counselling Psychology from San Diego State University and has years of experience as the Clinical Lead for Addictions within the NHS.
Affiliated with numerous professional organisations including the British Psychological Society and the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, Stefan is a recognised authority in addiction, trauma, and relationships. Before transitioning to private practice, he has contributed to international conferences, workshops, and media outlets like The Guardian and the BBC. He is also registered with health insurers for client convenience.
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  • @godivafromsteamhouse7419
    @godivafromsteamhouse7419 День тому

    I saw this on IG and immediately tried to find the longer version. I don't have the words....

  • @spiritualawakening2675
    @spiritualawakening2675 День тому

    This topic is so important thank you for bringing public awareness to this. However sex addiction is absolutely a real problem and it destroy lives. Any behavior that triggers the brain reward center can be misused and overused. Addiction doesn't mean you do something a lot. It means you continue engaging in the mood altering behavior in spite of negative consequences. Addiction hijacks the mind and destroys your life. People who love a lot of sex aren't necessarily sex addicts any more than people who love to drink are alcoholics. But sex addiction is very real. And permanent sobriety / recovery is possible! You can learn more on my youtube channel for recovery from sex addiction at ua-cam.com/channels/bRyQPcI--MrNb-WPUb_PlQ.html

  • @JordiKing25
    @JordiKing25 2 дні тому

    This... man.. i didnt know, but .. now i do n shall do otherwise to work better with this condition. 12:15 what treatments are being spoken about?

  • @faethe000
    @faethe000 2 дні тому

    Did he not know where the cameras were?

  • @Gamer-jn3be
    @Gamer-jn3be 2 дні тому

    Had to watch this on speed 2 very interesting and definitely need to be assessed Im 37

  • @Acconda
    @Acconda 3 дні тому

    with someone looking to get an assessment this whole thing sounds drawn out and daunting with some nice anxiety thrown in. I left thinking maybe i am just better with some helium! I mean what am i expecting from the appointment!! you tell me what i can expect ? hate that question, that list is a 100 lines long and i know some of it cant be changed unfortunately. promised my Mrs i would also try CBT or what ever you call it, as we are are the thin line line and i am at breaking point. I also dont believe in talking much, to me its black and white, talking don't change the reality of things.

  • @kabyashreesarma1390
    @kabyashreesarma1390 3 дні тому

    I lost my father on 27th January 2024 and life's been a mess since then. Every corner of the house reminds me of him. After his death I realised that he was loved by countless people. I miss him every single day. I wish he's in peace now and healthy and happy. I love you papa❤

  • @skitz-oh
    @skitz-oh 5 днів тому

    My mood is usually pretty flat until i get emotionally invested (one sided) with someone or "fancy" them, or if something unexpected like someone cancels plans or even if i say hi and they dont respond. ill get so sad if i percieve them(whoever i fancy) maybe ignoring me or showing more interest in another guy than me so i kinda shut down and usually end uo drinking myself into oblivion, punching myself or sometimes ill not burn myself but ill heat up the metal on my lighter for ages and "extinguish" it on myself.. i hate myself for bwing this way.. all i want is someone to love me for who i am but everytime i try i just end up being more hurt and hating myself even more.. i wish i was never born because so far, all my life has been shit, im a failure of a man, i feel as though is dont deserve a relationship because im scared and i dont want to upset anyone by being a cunt.. kinda resigned myself to be alone forever but it still doesnt stop my feelings and how i yearn for a loving relationship... guess life will just be shit untill i die..

  • @ossiisohella6435
    @ossiisohella6435 5 днів тому

    I have been on assesment couple times and everytime they have said that i dont have adhd. But i just cant get the feeling out of me that i do have it, or something wierd with my brain. Im so tired of going to psychologists anymore and just survive from week to week

  • @ruthsmit3336
    @ruthsmit3336 5 днів тому

    Very well defined

  • @stbam1965
    @stbam1965 5 днів тому

    Can. You. Talk. Any. S l o w e r ? OMG

  • @stbam1965
    @stbam1965 5 днів тому

    This guy is putting me to sleep. He talks like BORING

  • @lyndseylee6784
    @lyndseylee6784 8 днів тому

    Loving these comments self diagnosed I always speed up voice messages didn't even know I could on you tube! ❤

  • @kirstythomas3902
    @kirstythomas3902 10 днів тому

    Love this explanation, I can't think of anyone who wouldn't benefit from a few therapy sessions!

  • @sarahmcintyre6150
    @sarahmcintyre6150 10 днів тому

    Got distracted by the ,multicoloured zebra on his shirt and went off on a tangent googling the brand and missed what he said.

  • @andrew1922
    @andrew1922 10 днів тому

    Miss you Mom. I love you. But Jesus must've wanted you more than me. It hurts. I hate Parkinson's.

  • @pablocastro5061
    @pablocastro5061 11 днів тому

    i just Lost My dad... 7 of may 2024...he had a surgery to loose weight but he was so fragile after... i miss him so much and i regret i didnt was with him...i would've loved to tell him My secrets, fears and regrets...that i'm gay... i can't even comprehend that i will never see him again...

  • @deniseorciuoli3664
    @deniseorciuoli3664 11 днів тому

    I have been crying all day because today is one of those days where I feel my brain is being squeezed, the more I try to focus I feel it more. I have been on a list for over a year and I am so lonely and depressed. I can;t do my job tasks, I can't even manage my feelings and it is not fair. I want to be seen, listened, cured. I am losing the will

  • @TempleoftheSon
    @TempleoftheSon 12 днів тому

    I never, and I do mean never, did my homework. What homework I did get done was in the 5 minutes between classes on the day the homework was due. I also never studied for tests, literally never unless we were forced to group study during class. Yet, I was a B- student. I remember I had one teacher tell me I was wasting my potential and another told me I would be remarkable if I would actually apply myself. I'm undiagnosed, but I'm fairly confident I'm ADHD. I wish my parents realized that when I was younger, but because I was intellectually gifted it went unnoticed. My dad doesn't believe ADHD is a real "illness", instead he believes that what is called ADHD is just a lack of discipline. He always said I was shy because I didn't talk much, but in reality there was just too much going on in my head. Between being intellectually gifted, "shy", and my dad believing ADHD was fake I never had a chance to be diagnosed.

  • @stilettoswinger7404
    @stilettoswinger7404 13 днів тому

    Is he trolling us??talk faster!!

  • @iexist455
    @iexist455 15 днів тому

    how do I fix it, I can't get anything done I'm so close to just killing myself (without the use of medication please, I can't afford it)

  • @wendyleeconnelly2939
    @wendyleeconnelly2939 15 днів тому

    0:41-0:47 It looks like her listening to herself speak. I don't think that's what they mean but it's odd editing.

  • @TRDiscordian
    @TRDiscordian 16 днів тому

    Okay. I’m not sure how to get help in Ontario though. Thanks.

  • @moy3436
    @moy3436 17 днів тому

    Yes U will be cheated 🤫on if U love your 📱 phone she has no clue 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @patrickneale3808
    @patrickneale3808 18 днів тому

    When last have you looked at someone and listen to them, and not heard a darn thing. Ill have to come back to this.😢 Brilliant watch. 🙏

  • @Someone54
    @Someone54 18 днів тому

    This explained everything in my life. I'm 55 and in the process of an ADHD assessment

  • @annasssokol
    @annasssokol 20 днів тому

    perfect video to watch on 1.5 speed :D

  • @mauimeowi
    @mauimeowi 20 днів тому

    Is he deliberately talking in a way that someone with ADHD would nor be able to focus?

  • @bobbypower25
    @bobbypower25 21 день тому

    Your loved ones are still living on. A father would never want his child to perish away. We simply just don't understand the process. Our bodies are fragile but our energy is strong. That energy transitions. My cousin died and begged to go back to death. He literally told everyone it was paradise. I'm not even afraid to die anymore. Your parent, who is God, would never want anything to happen to you. He truly loves you. He created us. Your loves ones are fine. The sooner we understand this the better.❤️

  • @trauma2happiness
    @trauma2happiness 21 день тому

    Some therapists don't like individual sessions because they don't want to be keeping secrets from the other partner who is also their client

  • @user-bz9rh2xb4g
    @user-bz9rh2xb4g 21 день тому

    Today my uncle died. I saw him as a parent. He was always there for me. My heart goes out to everyone who has gone through any loss. I dont know how to deal with this, or where to start.

  • @todor8208
    @todor8208 23 дні тому

    I lost my father on 14th feb 2024, My father was a very hardworking man and loved by many. He always stood by me no matter what, always made me feel special and gave me whatever I asked for, he was in the icu for 1 month, I could see his health deteriorate day by day, as there was ventilator support through the mouth so he couldn't say anything to me but he wanted to, he knew he was leaving me but we both couldn't help. I miss you papa.

  • @maddogg26
    @maddogg26 23 дні тому

    Says the lady with no ring on righhtttt 😂 she probably came back to watch her own video

  • @123456789musicislife
    @123456789musicislife 24 дні тому

    Realizing that one time I tried Coke and it didn’t do anything for me was because I had ADHD

  • @MegamanXfan21xx
    @MegamanXfan21xx 26 днів тому

    My mom got cancer and quickly went downhill in the last month of her life. She passed on April 20, 2024, just four days after my birthday and two weeks after our pet cat died. I've got my brother for support, but it's still horribly painful for the both of us.

    • @Dave-es2lp
      @Dave-es2lp 25 днів тому

      i am sorry for your loss.

  • @Theholyspiritstemple
    @Theholyspiritstemple 26 днів тому

    Yes it is expensive. Since I can't afford a good adhd doctor I got another one that thinks im schizophrenic because i have lots of thoughts in my head. Now i get antidepressants and antipsychotics that never fixed my problems only made me worse. Thanks Free Medical Insurance!

  • @nunomartins2006
    @nunomartins2006 26 днів тому

    Is there a cure? Which treatments is he talking about? Can someone please help me

  • @Rollwithit699
    @Rollwithit699 27 днів тому

    Thank you for this. I'm was diagnosed with Asperger's and ADHD two years ago which was a huge relief to finally understand why I am this way. I'm now a 70 year old female, former successful medical transcription business owner. I was very good at this, photographic memory at work (not with all things), exhausted and overwhelmed. Have always been far too sensitive and had issues with time. The diagnosis made great sense.

  • @sak466
    @sak466 27 днів тому

    just got to know i may have adhd lol

  • @aklesiawunete2473
    @aklesiawunete2473 28 днів тому

    hearing that it's not my fault that if I'm not overly interested in an activity it'll likely not get done, and if it does it won't be fully finished was so validating.

  • @debbiedebbie9473
    @debbiedebbie9473 29 днів тому

    Which medicine is helpful and non addictive like you mentioned at the end of this video ?

  • @r00ksy
    @r00ksy Місяць тому

    This is my life, I need to get some treatment before I lose my 300th job (i'm serious). I've always managed to have a (sort of) successful life because i am surrounded by people who understand me. But every single thing he said applies to me. thanks for explaining so clearly.

  • @chasey2327
    @chasey2327 Місяць тому

    Found her book about her dad Bob absorbing - covers the ups and downs of his early life and acting career alongside her own life challenges and experiences. everyone loved Bob and the book gives us an idea of the private, inquisitive man at home.

  • @davey8544
    @davey8544 Місяць тому

    Lost my mom yesterday of brain cancer. How depressing😞

    • @KumarK-cn1sj
      @KumarK-cn1sj 24 дні тому

      I lost my father nearly a month back and totally devastated .

  • @jenya1924
    @jenya1924 Місяць тому

    Thanks alot

  • @azz7810
    @azz7810 Місяць тому

    Speak faster please

  • @blank3605
    @blank3605 Місяць тому

    My parents are super old and my mum is sick. I'm unemployed and depend upon them. I tried my best I worked so hard to get a job even dealing with my own depression but the fact that my mum is at this state is killing me. I have fear it can happen any time. My mum raised me as a single parent although I have a dad but he's a bad dad. I don't know what will happen to me when she dies. I was already lost in my own world but this pain I can't bear. I'm super scared. I feel so lonely. I feel like I am an exposed wound. I see no light. My dreams are shattered. My heart is broken. And I have pile of school work.

  • @caminoabienestar7131
    @caminoabienestar7131 Місяць тому

    Thank you Dr Edwards , Anyone got together after 2 years apart ? 😅

  • @nowie4007
    @nowie4007 Місяць тому

    This has got to be the most relatable video to my own experience i have ever seen Thank you so much for posting this ❤❤❤

  • @derekrivera8567
    @derekrivera8567 Місяць тому

    This describes what I’m going through, my boyfriend is always saying that I’m not listening l, and part of it is true but I don’t mean to lol! And I get anxiety at work constantly